BABY LOSS CHARITY RETURNING TO PLYMOUTH TO HONOUR LOST BABIES

“WE WANT TO ENSURE EVERY CHILD IS RECOGNISED, HOWEVER FLEETING THEIR EXISTENCE” LEADING  BABY LOSS CHARITY RETURNING TO PLYMOUTH TO HONOUR LOST BABIES  

A service of remembrance for families, couples and individuals affected by the loss of a baby, whether that  be during pregnancy, at birth or in infancy is to be held on Saturday the 19th November at 11.00am at St  Andrew’s Minster, Plymouth. In addition, anyone grieving never having children, is also most welcome to  attend. 

The ‘Saying Goodbye’ services, which are open to people of faith or no faith and for those who have lost  recently or decades ago, are uplifting and moving events filled with music, poems, acts of remembrance  and more, and have been attended by thousands of people, who have found healing and solace by taking  part.  

The services are run by the Mariposa Trust, a charity founded by Zoe and Andy Clark-Coates, who sadly  suffered the loss of five babies. They saw an extreme lack of support for parents like them, and wanted to  give families the space to grieve for their lost babies.  

The charity’s CEO Zoe Clark-Coates MBE commented "Our services are a wonderful opportunity for  mothers, fathers, siblings and extended family to say goodbye to their babies and show they are truly loved  and will always be missed. It’s our job at the Mariposa Trust to ensure every child is recognised, however  fleeting their existence.” 

Sadly baby loss affects around 1 in 4 pregnancies each year in the UK, with nearly 700 babies lost each day.  When parents go through the devastating loss of a baby, whether during pregnancy, at birth or in infancy,  they often feel isolated and unable to process the overwhelming grief and trauma that miscarriage,  stillbirth, neonatal and early years loss brings. The services allow people to stand with others who have  experienced the similar trauma of baby loss, and collectively acknowledge and remember each life lost.  

One parent who attended a service said, “The Saying Goodbye service gave me the time and space to  formally recognise all of my babies and the experience of being with people who just knew how it felt was a  real strength. As I stood with other parents and proudly rang the bell for my 14 babies, I felt unbearable  sadness but also a great privilege in being able to properly celebrate their existence. For the first time ever I  felt my tears of grief, loss and love were allowed, shared and understood.” 

The Mariposa Trust provides free support to people affected by baby loss, pregnancy after baby loss,  fertility, adoption and more. The Trust has become the leading support charity in this field, with over  50,000 people each week, accessing support.  

The charity is at the forefront of campaigning for change, and in 2018, Zoe was appointed by the Secretary  of State for Health and 10 Downing Street to chair the ‘National Pregnancy Loss Review’, looking at all 

pre24-week baby loss support in the UK. In addition, Zoe was awarded an MBE for services to baby loss in  the Queen’s honours in 2021.  

Zoe continues, “We invite anyone who has gone through or been affected by baby loss, to join us for this  special event.”